September Gave Me Two Reasons to Reflect
A Birthday Reflection | September 30, 2026
There is something about the last day of September that makes you look
back a little longer than usual.
Maybe it is because September is ending. Maybe it is because I am also
adding another year to my life. Or maybe it is because, somehow, this
particular September became much more meaningful to me than I expected.
I have never really been the guy who gets extremely excited about
birthdays. I don't usually count down to midnight, make a massive announcement,
or suddenly become a full-time birthday philosopher. 😂 There is nothing wrong with celebrating life, of
course, but birthdays have always made me think more than they make me
celebrate.
Another birthday or another year naturally comes with the regular
questions: What have I done with the year? What have I learned? What have I
become? What still needs to change? What am I carrying into the next year, and
what should probably stay in the previous one? And very important; Why am I still
broke? 🥲😫very real
This year, however, This September gave me more reason to reflect and
show out instead of being non-challant about my birthday and guess what it was:
Deaf awareness.
What started as an idea to write about Deaf awareness turned into seven days of
me digging into things I had been thinking about for a while: access, sign
language, education, representation, Deaf culture, participation and human
rights.
The timing also happened to line up with the World Federation of the
Deaf's International Week of Deaf People, which ran from September 21 to 27,
2026, under the theme “Declaring Deaf People’s Human Rights.” This year
was also the 75th anniversary of the World Federation of the Deaf, founded on
September 23, 1951. (World Federation of the Deaf)
And honestly, the more I wrote, the more I realised that this wasn't just
another content series for me. It became a conversation with myself. I started
with “Deafness Is Not the Barrier. Access Is.” because sometimes we look
at Deafness itself as the problem when the bigger issue is what happens when
society fails to provide access. Then I moved into language and education,
asking a question that I think deserves more attention: what exactly does education
mean when a person does not have full access to the language through which that
education is delivered?
That conversation led naturally into sign language and human rights,
because language is not just about communicating what you had for breakfast.
Language is tied to education, identity, participation and how people
experience the world. Then came the uncomfortable but necessary question of
accessibility itself: Why should a Deaf person have to bring accessibility
with them?
Why does the responsibility so often seem to fall on the person who needs
access to arrange everything before they can participate? Why is the
expectation sometimes, “Bring your interpreter,” instead of, “How do we make
this environment accessible?” Then came one of my favourite themes of the
entire week: Nothing About Us Without Us. Even reading it for the first
time, it sounded deep and I was like “mmm hmmm”. That one made me think about
something beyond policies and programmes. It made me think about stories. Who
gets to tell the story of Deaf people?
Too often, Deaf conversations begin with what Deaf people supposedly
lack. They cannot hear. They need this. They need that. There are barriers here
and challenges there. Those things matter, but Deaf people are not simply a
collection of things they need. There are Deaf entrepreneurs. Deaf
professionals. Deaf creatives. Deaf parents. Deaf students. Deaf athletes. Deaf
actors. Deaf fashion designers. Deaf business owners. Deaf people who are
wealthy, middle-class, struggling, famous, unknown and everything in between. There
isn't one Deaf story. There are millions of them.
And then we got to Deaf culture, which reminded me that Deaf people are
not simply people waiting to be “included” in somebody else's world. Deaf
communities have their own languages, identities, histories, cultures and ways
of connecting. The final article brought everything back to the bigger
question: 75 years of human rights, but what do those rights actually look
like in everyday life?
The WFD describes this year's final theme as a continuation of its
75-year history of working for Deaf people's human rights, alongside the
recognition of national sign languages and Deaf culture. Its message is simple:
Deaf people's rights are human rights. (World Federation of the Deaf). That sounds
obvious, and yet, sometimes the simplest things are the ones we still have to
explain because there is a difference between having a right and being
able to exercise that right.
A right to education means more than simply having a school building
somewhere.
A right to information means more than information existing somewhere
online.
A right to participate means more than being invited into a room where
you cannot fully participate in the conversation.
A right to work means more than putting “equal opportunity” on a poster.
A right to communication means more than telling Deaf people to figure it
out somehow.
That difference between what exists on paper and what people actually
experience is where inclusion becomes real. That is probably the biggest thing
this entire September has made me think about.
Deaf awareness should not have an expiry date.
September can end. The hashtags can slow down. The campaign graphics can
disappear from timelines. People can move on to the next trending topic but
Deaf people are still here.
They will still be going to work after October 1st. They will still be going to
school. They will still visit hospitals, attend church, run businesses, create
content, sit in meetings, buy things, sell things, study, fall in love, raise
families, complain about bad customer service 😂 and live ordinary
lives so what happens after September?
That, to me, is the more important question.
If you run a business, think about Deaf customers.
If you work in education, think about Deaf learners.
If you create content, think about Deaf viewers.
If you organise events, think about Deaf participants.
If you work in entertainment, fashion, technology, healthcare, banking,
media, government, sports or any other sector, ask yourself a very simple
question: Where are Deaf people in this picture?
And not just as people we are talking about.
As people who are actually there.
As customers.
As professionals.
As creators.
As decision-makers.
As leaders.
As participants.
As human beings.
That last part matters to me because sometimes advocacy becomes so
complicated that we forget the simplest foundation of it all. Deaf people are
human beings. They don't need to become extraordinarily successful before we
decide they deserve inclusion. They don't need to inspire us first. They don't
need to prove that they can “overcome” Deafness. They don't need to perform
some incredible achievement before their dignity becomes important. They matter
and maybe that is part of what growing older has made me understand too.
I don't have everything figured out. Far from it. There are still many
things I want to achieve. There are things I thought I would have accomplished
by now that I haven't. There are things I am still learning, things I am still
building and, honestly, things I am still trying to understand about myself so
I don't want to pretend that turning another year older suddenly gives me all
the answers because it doesn't, but it does give me another opportunity to pay
attention to what genuinely matters to me and somewhere along this journey,
Deaf inclusion became one of those things. I didn't plan for September to
become this reflective. I didn't plan for a seven-day series to make me rethink
how I see language, access, representation, culture and human rights. But it
happened, and I am glad it did.
So, yes, September gave me two reasons to reflect. One is that I am
entering another year of my life. The other is that this month reminded
me of something I don't want to leave behind when the calendar changes.
My birthday is personal but the lesson I am taking from this September is
bigger than me. I want to keep learning. I want to keep asking questions. I
want to keep talking about Deaf inclusion in places where it is sometimes
forgotten. I want to keep encouraging people to think beyond awareness and into
actual inclusion because inclusion should not be something we remember only
when a particular month tells us to remember it, and Deaf awareness should not
disappear simply because September has ended.
The World Federation of the Deaf's work itself makes that point in a much
bigger way: 75 years after its founding, the work is still continuing. (World Federation of the Deaf)
Maybe September didn't give me two completely different things to reflect on
after all, maybe they are connected. Another year of my life and another
reminder of the kind of world I want to contribute to.
A world where Deaf people are not constantly treated as an afterthought. A
world where sign language is recognised, access is planned, Deaf voices are
heard, Deaf culture is respected and inclusion is not considered a special
favour.
A world where we stop asking, “How do we fit Deaf people into what
already exists?” and start asking, “Why wasn't everyone considered from
the beginning?” That is the thought I am carrying into this new year of my
life, and before I completely leave September behind, let me do one more thing.
I know some of you did not see all seven articles from the Deaf Awareness
series because I did not post every article with its link across every platform,
so I have brought the series together.
You can catch up with the stories by clicking on the topic for each day's theme below:
Day 1 - [Deafness Is Not the Barrier. Access Is.]
Day 2 & Day 3 - [International Day of Sign Languages: Language Is a Human Right, Not an Option]
Day 4 - [Why Should a Deaf Person Have to Bring Accessibility With Them?]
Day 5 - [Nothing About Us Without Us: Maybe We’ve Been Telling the Deaf Story Wrong]
Day 6 - [Deaf Culture Is a Human Right]
Day 7 [75 Years of Human Rights: Are Deaf People Really Enjoying Those Rights?]
And now this one, the personal reflection that brings the month to a
close. If you have not read any of them, maybe this is your sign to start.
Go through them. Think about them. Challenge something I said if you disagree.
Agree with something if it resonates with you. And please, leave a comment
on the website. I don't want these pieces to just sit there as articles
people read and forget. I want them to start conversations.
September may be ending. The conversation shouldn't, and as for me…
Happy birthday to me. 🥂 Another year. Another
lesson. Another reason to keep going. ❤️




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